30/m/Canada. I live close-ish to Ottawa. (The only big army base nearby) Id like to meet a guy who also wears diapers to meet up with and bro out. Or just play videogames with. I play miniature wargames and a small selection of videogames. I also enjoy camping and other outdoors stuff. This sounds pathetic but I literally just need a freind that understands ABDL stuff. I am married but the wife doesn't appreciate the diapers. Not sure what app is best for making contact. 1st Pic is a cool model I made of a t-34 dug in to be used as a bunker in flames of war. 2nd pic is me in a diaper.

>>41094 Hi, yes my name on kik is abdlguy80 Look forward to hear from you :)

Any female littles or caretakers in the Denver CO area?

23/M around Fulshear, TX Discord: deletnow

>>41526 I'm in Katy off Grand Parkway but I don't have discord.

35M from Central Finland here, discord incredible_mango_41843

>>10968 just experienced this actually For the record, I dont usually feel very comfortable around dudes while in littlespace unless I have an actual confirmation they are asexual like me and wont try anything weird with me, so you would imagine than trooners enforcing their sexual aggressiveness is not something I can just ignore if I am trying to feel vulnerable Tired of fetlife feeling a waste I checked a local forum, have been trying to reach out to the local community and got invited to a whatsup group while chatting it up in a forum 95% of it is non-passing trooners, most of them MtF, trapped in a unending delusional circlejerk of lies and plain retarded mental gymnastics, thank god I have a secondary SIM for this kind of thing I can just destroy I guess its my fault for believing things were not so bad, jesus, I feel like I truly got my disheartened this time around.

>>44297 >For the record, I dont usually feel very comfortable around dudes while in littlespace unless I have an actual confirmation they are asexual like me and wont try anything weird with me I understand that sort of situation, but to be honest, I am kind of resigned to it? When I was younger it was far more disheartening, especially when all of your peers are maturing and yet you have no outlet for your own desires, but after a while I feel like the pain gets dulled and you can just sort of subsist by having private fantasies. Really, most of us made it through childhood through that route, and so I do not think that it is much harder to continue like that through adulthood. Granted, I was never big into the "IRL" ABDL scene, which I think has different demographics than the kind of places where I had been hanging out in adolescence. I mostly just interacted with writing circles and babyfur groups, which I think had an unspoken mentality of ignoring normal life shit, relationships, etc. because one's fantasies were always impossible to realize. After a brief bout of disappointment after reaching adulthood I actually felt a lot of my desires to do ABDL stuff with other people dissipate. Magic and religion already provides me with the real succor that I need, so the lack of companionship does not hurt. Actually, I am kind of curious if you're also aromantic anon. I can see how the problem would be different if you still want a partner of some sort.

>>44302 sadly I am not aromantic, otherwise life would be swell, needing companionship of that kind might be messing me up a bit. Also at the same time, I feel that I have resigned myself to the idea of finding a Mommy a looooooong time ago. I want to actually have little friends just to chill, hangout in private parties and eat snacks, watch disney movies, dress cute and just joke around being padded and not feel like anyone is judging me. Dont want it to sound like an incel rant but, being gay and into ab/dl sounds awesome heaps of gay Daddies out there, I even played with the idea in my head of having a Daddy but I always come to the same conclusion, its just weird for me, I cannot bring myself to be vulnerable like that sometimes with other littleboys around, a male CG? its too much. I need a maternal-protective energy to allow me to feel safe and comfortable, its just who I am. I have a bunch of very solid friends though (vanilla of course) which make life all worth living they dont live in my current city sadly, but yeah I guess the answer is truly keep doing what you are doing and try to not loose heart. Jesus, I thought my bar was low-ish with little friends but I see I was waaaaay off it.

>>44306 >I want to actually have little friends just to chill, hangout in private parties and eat snacks, watch disney movies, dress cute and just joke around being padded and not feel like anyone is judging me. Okay yeah, that feel is a hard one, damn. I think the part that sucks is that it seems way more plausible than finding a caretaker, but it is still very difficult to find someone who you just gel with and can also just be little around without it being weird. It is almost like the fact that it is more possible renders the fact that you cannot achieve it more painful. Not too familiar with the situation in regards to male caretakers, but I can see why you would have a hang-up about it that would not let you rest at ease. Nowadays I don't really think about gender when it comes to them, but back when I was a kid I think that having a maternal figure was practically a given. Caretakers in general just feel like that thing that you do not want to find in real-life, because the reality would never be as good as the perfect image in your mind. Wishing you luck man. Having friends move away can fuck with you in ways that are not immediately apparent at first glance. Glad that you were able to spend a long time with them beforehand, at least. Still, you are right when it comes to not losing heart. Perseverance is a virtue. Hope things brighten up for you.

>>44307 thanks dude, at least I can vent in peace here chans get a lot of bad rep but this place sometimes feels like the coziest fucking place now someone call me a "faggot" and "kys" please, lets keep it rolling

>>44347 kys faggot

Hiya hi, everyone! So my fiancé and I have been trying to reach out to the community lately! We're early and mid thirties M/F couple in central Ohio who just started making and sharing content this year! We're Looking for friendly, like-minded padded people to hang out with. Video games, movies, anime, music... all the good nerdy stuff. Hit us up on twitter about it if you're interested. Pics of both of us attached https://x.com/This_AndOr_That I've lurked on this board on occasion and thought "what the hell. It's fine. Nobody's gona human centipede us, right?

Wow I didn't mean too kill the thread with my previous post, but I have to come back here to gush over having a friendly little over for a visit. We had such a great time out shopping and ended the evening with drinks, pizza, and 80s horror flicks. Before they left I got to be the first person ever to wrap them up in a diaper, big fluffy Cloudee. Safe to say we're now besties and we plan on hanging out a lot more.

Not mad. 0/10

>>44363 Male half of the couple reporting in now. She's pretty great. We've had a great time with our meetups so far. It'd be fun to meet one or two of you guys from here, too. Also lol @ the guy calling us ugly and then deleting his post. I'm a 2007 chan oldfag. You think a couple impolite words will tilt us? Nahhhh. We gud

>>41214 *UPDATE* I'm separated and now I know that Im mostly gay. Hit me up Ontario diaper boys. My life is so much better now, my BPD ex was not helping but being out is great and now I can wear diapers all the time. dprcostproject@gmail.com economicsanddiapers on reddit.

>>45209 You looking for just wholesome hanging out, or depraved diaper fuckin'? Something along the lines of using the back of your diaper as a urinal, then once it's nice and soaked rip a hole and breed your ass through it.

>>45352 Say less lol. All of the above.

>>45381 You got telegram? Chat for awhile, see if we vibe. I've got a gf but it's an open relationship so I can fuck with other people, but I don't usually do just lewd so would wanna hangout and shit too.

>>45427 Telegram will work. Start by emailing my ABDL burner email: dprcostproject@gmail.com I'll get you the telegram from there. Where are you located?

Maybe I'll see about this again. Been a while since I tried posting my discord like. I'm a guy that like treating guys like toddlers and teasing them a bunch. My favorite guys are those that pout and fuss and blush about being diapered and babied. I'm told I'm pretty good at this and that I'm good looking. I'm in south east America. Sfor97660 discord

>>27100 I went to Sidequest this year, which was my first ABDL convention. I figured I'd catalog my experience here for convenience. If you're looking to go to an ABDL con and hook up, forget it. Every girl at one of these is obese, mentally ill, or taken. It's nice being able to oggle the few cute girls who are running around in diapers, but you're not getting with them. A lot of what they offer is geared toward ABs rather than DLs. There's cool stuff like play areas, oversized bouncers, and other stuff, but the only sexy things are dungeon rooms that are best enjoyed with friends. If you're going alone, it can be boring. I actually left a day early because I just felt bored, though the people I did interact with were pretty chill. There's a lot of furry overlap with ABDL, which annoys me because I'm not furry, but just be prepared to see that. The vendors are pretty great, seeing companies like Immature and ODU selling is a lot of fun. They also let you try things on before you buy which is great since figuring out ABDL sizes can be weird (I'm a 2XL in ODU but just a L in Tykables, for example - pic is not me). One thing that killed me at the host hotel was how cold it was! Walking around in a diaper + onesie can get pretty chilly, and the con itself was in a fairly cold area, so that was an adjustment. Most of the con central spaces were kept warm enough but there were moments walking back to my room that got really cold. All in all, I think it's fun and a valuable experience to have. Definitely better if you already have ABDL friends in the scene or even a partner willing to roleplay with you, but just chatting with other ABDLs can be great.

>>45535 >but the only sexy things are dungeon rooms that are best enjoyed with friends Can you give more details on that? I've been meaning to go to Capcon but I have no idea what's offered or what happens. And I couldn't give a single fuck about any panels or vendors. But I swear everything cool that happens feels like some sort of secret or kept under wraps.

>>45535 I have to be honest here, I almost spent HEAPS of money to go to KangaCon. I got excited about the chance of going to my frst ABDL con so I started planning about it, checking plane tickets and what not. Honestly I have been having a shitty time lately and my circle of friends kind of shrunk suddenly (vanilla friends, I dont have ABDL friends) so I was feeling extra lonely and the thought of finding other chill people into this who I can enjoy it with got me super hyped. I would definitely enjoy panels and vendors, I love the AB side of things and I definitely love diapers so I feel I would enjoy it, even if its just me being on my own. Long gone has the dream of me getting a Mommy or a switch AB girl to have fun with, specially trying to hook up in this cons, it is obvious the very few women into this are walking red flags and most of the times plain ugly. The adult sized games like jungle gyms, bouncers and play areas is definitely another thing that sounds amazing. Luckily KangaCon strictly restricts Furry attire, so I guess that one is pro. One thing that felt a little bit commity is that the rooms in the Hotel are for three people, so either you share with total strangers or you end up paying a room for three people just for you which I am guessing must NOT be cheap at all. Also, I don't think they let you wear abdl clothes outside the convention area, so that one is a con for it. As I was starting the actual planning for it, just out of chance I stumbled upon a discord for my area it sounded like a great opportunity to make connections with people and then meetup at the convention, it sounded like a great idea... then this happened >>44297 So my whole plan went out the window, I have to admit, I want to make friends and chill, but the amount of crazy troons and creeps just sounds like a significant risk for me to invest thousands of dollars to travel abroad to a Con, fuck it, I will try to make friends with a local dominatrix and pay for playdates with her. >>45581 >tfw you will never have padded little private parties with the ABDreams staff to mock trannies and ugly leftards why live diaperbros?

>>45535 -Every girl at one of these is obese, mentally ill, or taken. I mean, you say yourself your 2xl, so pot meet kettle? I was vetted years ago to go to camp abdulia but my then GF, now wife, wasn't comfortable with it so we didn't go. I believe that was one of the last ones too where lots of shit (literally) transpired. I have gone to local munches and met some pretty solid people, and LOTS of messed up people too. I haven't been to any munches in 7 years, the good people moved away, and I have 2 kids now so my priorities have shifted. Honestly, I'm in my early 30s and I can not connect with the majority of people into this kink anymore due to the fact of being a parent/stable life and relationship. It sucks but at least I am finally comfortable with this side of my life.

>>45535 >. Every girl at one of these is obese, mentally ill, or taken. It's nice being able to oggle the few cute girls who are running around in diapers, but you're not getting with them. >>45535 > (I'm a 2XL in ODU but just a L in Tykables The best part about chanboard posters is that the very act of posting here as if you're not obese or mentally ill (we already know you're not taken) is already absurd enough, but you also expect others NOT to be obese or mentally ill like a hypocrite. This is why you'll be forever alone and sad. There is plenty of friendship, companionship and fun to be had in the community, but then you'd have to get over your hatred of transgender women, obese women and mentally ill women.

>>45689 Nta but AI wear medium onesies! Not obese but arguably mentally ill!

>>45644 >I have gone to local munches and met some pretty solid people, and LOTS of messed up people too Thats the thing 1 chill person but 7 really messed up people just makes me feel super unsafe, and I cannot enjoy this thing if I dont feel safe. Small country, quite conservative, I attended a munch super cool, got vetted, attended the little event. In the middle of it, they started talking politics, one of the event hosts told very proudly to everyone in the event she got into a fight with the doctor at the hospital when they gave her the baby and told her "she's a healthy baby girl" and how dare this doctor assume her baby's gender, you CANNOT make this shit up. 90% of the people nodded wholeheartedly, I stared at a littlegirl we were chatting super friendly before and we sort of shared this look of "this is a bit messed up". Needless to say, I cut contact from that group entirely and kept to myself ever since because there is barely any community and 85% are MtF or Gay dudes who will "totally not try to hit on you bro, just let me playfully change you and may be fondle you a little but its all cool bro" I wish I kept in touch with the little girl though I feel like we could have actually had chill playdates watching disney movies and coloring and shit, super safe. Now I am intrigued about the last camp abdulia drama... >>45689 >The best part about chanboard posters is that the very act of posting here as if you're not obese or mentally ill (we already know you're not taken) is already absurd enough, but you also expect others NOT to be obese or mentally ill like a hypocrite. Obese people I have absolutely no problem with, I actually dated an obese Mommy vert shortly but it did not work due to political extremism *clearly a sign of mental illness* I am not claiming I am not obese or I have no mental illnesses, I have no way of proving it so might as well say I am those things. What I dont do is I dont screech my beliefs into people's faces in hopes of them adopting them forcefully nor do I bully people into thinking the way I do. All I want to do is chill with other littles who dont want to do overly sexual nasty shit, no horny coombrains, just chill with little homies and do cute stuff may be a couple of CGs taking care of us, dont even have to change us, just read us a few stories, give us a few snacks, look over us, I might ask for a hug but thats it, nothing more, I could not care less about who you vote for or what is your weight. HOWEVER, if you bring that troon-coombrain shit near the most vulnerable part of my entire being which I protect with everything I have on this earth my empathy flies out the fucking window, you are no longer a human for me. >This is why you'll be forever alone and sad. There is plenty of friendship, companionship and fun to be had in the community, but then you'd have to get over your hatred of transgender women, obese women and mentally ill women. I can be many things, probably not even a good person, but I refuse to pretend to agree with retarded beliefs out of some stupid sense of forced empathy and acceptance or because it turns me on to be surrounded by other people into AB/DL and simply turn a blind eye on actual mental illness being glorified. Again, obese people are not the problem here, I am not saying its good to be obese either, you should have some sense of healthiness, but still not the issue here. Also, not all mental illness will be a deal breaker as well, probably I am fucked up in the head as well but I will I hold a job, I provide for myself and I try to do other activities outside kinky shit, I dont make this my entire fucking personality. Yeah, keep all that wonderful people anon, you deserve each other really, I am sure you have wonderful talks and really meaningful exchanges of daily microaggressions and transphobia everywhere.

>>45707 You are a special lil guy who needs a big bro or sis that respects your boundaries. I hope you find that anon. I'm a horny little boy but I'd be on my best behavior if we had a playdate. Playing video games, watching cartoons and maybe playing in the snow. I have lots of hugs and cuddles to give but only if you want to. I know how important it is for the little you inside to be taken care of made to feel safe.

>>45707 >I can be many things, probably not even a good person, but I refuse to pretend to agree with retarded beliefs out of some stupid sense of forced empathy and acceptance or because it turns me on to be surrounded by other people into AB/DL and simply turn a blind eye on actual mental illness being glorified. You want to dress up like and be treated as a toddler. You're no less mentally ill than the transgender crowd. Throwing stones in a glass house. >>45707 >, I could not care less about who you vote for or what is your weight. HOWEVER, if you bring that troon-coombrain shit near the most vulnerable part of my entire being which I protect with everything I have on this earth my empathy flies out the fucking window, you are no longer a human for me. Whether you like it or not, kink is political and has been since it's start. There is no political choice anymore, the right-wing MAGA crowd throws ABDL into the same groomer category as the transgender crowd. You won't be "one of the good ones" anon, no matter how much you think you will. >>45707 > my empathy flies out the fucking window, you are no longer a human for me. > You have no empathy to give in the first place. It's clear from your words you can't empathize at all with anyone. >>45707 >Yeah, keep all that wonderful people anon, you deserve each other really, I am sure you have wonderful talks and really meaningful exchanges of daily microaggressions and transphobia everywhere. > There's actually very little discussion of that in actual event spaces. Most people are y'know, actually having fun. Sure, the occasional topic comes up, but once again, you show your hate and intolerance here, you can't stand hearing opinions other than your own and certainly refuse to see another viewpoint. I say once again, this is why you'll be miserable and alone posting on a chanboard about how you can't go to events anymore. You refuse to reflect on your own political beliefs and how they're impacting that which you desire.

>>45707 >Now I am intrigued about the last camp abdulia drama... A lot of hearsay, but basically someone brought their vanilla partner, things were fine until someone allegedly shit in a bucket of their supplies they brought for the hot tub or something. Basically, dudes marriage ended shortly after and there were tons of alleged sexual assaults (over the course of its existence) and shit and the host Basically said she's done dealing with the drama.

>>45725 How is shitting my pants in the comfort of my home political? Plus, go figure, ANYONE can be into ABDL, not just democrats/liberals. t. Voted Trump last election

>>45736 NTA but it’s kinda crazy how often on tumblr i see sissy blogs that also post really out there pro trump boomer memes also

>>45736 >How is shitting my pants in the comfort of my home political? Conservatives/MAGA are the kind of morons that think ABDL is grooming and put it in the same category as the transgender grooming. You'd be considered the same. Conservatives scream the hardest about porn and anything that's not vanilla sex. All the porn content you like so much, that will go away, be banned and harder to find. ABDL is already wrongly correlated with pedo, so conservatives WILL vilify it. >>45736 >t. Voted Trump last election > You didn't have to say that, it was implied.

Change America's diaper. The foreign flys have been buzzing around it for years, stealing sips from its ba-ba for too many years. It's true. It's very true. *long exhale* Change America's Diaper... and that's not fake news. No it's not. If you or someone you know has TDS, in the urinated states, I ask that you please stay in the crib for the next four years. Thank you, thank you.